A Guide to Talking with Your Medical Provider About Trichotillomania

Hey beautiful! Like most of us, you've probably felt the frustration of trying to explain your condition to a doctor who may not fully understand it. It can be overwhelming, but we want to remind you that you deserve care from someone who listens and is well-informed about TTM.

Trichotillomania is not a bad habit; it’s a complex medical condition that requires attention and understanding. If your doctor doesn’t know much about it, that’s okay—it’s your right to find someone who is either willing to learn or already knows how to support you. And yes, you absolutely have the right to change doctors if you're not feeling heard or supported.

Today, let’s talk about how to approach your healthcare provider and what questions you should ask to make sure they’re the right fit for you.

Understanding Trichotillomania: You Deserve Knowledgeable Care

Many doctors might not be familiar with trichotillomania, or they may treat it as a minor issue. However, TTM is a chronic condition often linked to other emotional health challenges like anxiety or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). It’s important that your doctor recognizes the impact TTM has on your daily life.

Research shows that only about 27% of individuals with TTM have seen a psychiatrist about their condition (González et al., 2021). This is largely because TTM is often misunderstood or dismissed. But you shouldn’t settle for inadequate care.

Doctors who understand TTM know that the condition can have genetic, psychological, and environmental factors (Grant et al., 2020; González et al., 2021). They also know that treatment often involves a combination of strategies, including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), habit reversal training (HRT), and, in some cases, medications like SSRIs and N-acetylcysteine (NAC) (Mayo Clinic, 2023).

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Key Questions to Ask Your Doctor

To ensure that your healthcare provider is informed about TTM or willing to learn, here are a few key questions you can ask during your appointment:

  • What do you know about trichotillomania?


This will give you a sense of their familiarity with the condition. If they aren’t knowledgeable, don’t be afraid to ask if they are willing to learn.

  • Have you treated other patients with trichotillomania?


It’s important to know if they have experience managing TTM specifically. If not, ask if they can refer you to someone who has.

  • What treatment options do you recommend for managing TTM?


Ensure they suggest evidence-based treatments like SSRIs and NAC, rather than solely relying on sedatives, tranquilizers or medications that aren’t supported by research (Grant et al., 2020).

  • How do you stay updated on the latest research for TTM?


A good doctor will continually educate themselves about evolving treatments and strategies for managing conditions like TTM.

  • Can you team with a therapist or specialist familiar with body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs)?


Collaboration with emotional health professionals can be crucial for TTM management, so having a supportive team is essential.

Why It's Important to Advocate for Yourself

Doctors are often the first point of contact when it comes to seeking help for TTM, but they aren’t always the experts on everything. If your doctor doesn’t have the knowledge or tools to help you effectively, it’s okay to seek a second opinion.

You deserve a doctor who will listen and take your concerns seriously.
And remember, you are the expert on your own experience.

Finding a Trichotillomania-Informed Doctor

The fact that TTM may have a genetic component doesn’t mean you’re stuck with it forever. It just means that you can better understand why it happens and use that knowledge to take control of your healing.

 

Behavioral therapies, lifestyle changes, and connecting with supportive communities can still make a big difference, even if genetics play a role.

About HFHP

At Healing from Hair Pulling (HFHP), we understand the complexity of living with trichotillomania. That’s why we offer health education programs and personalized action plans designed specifically for women. Our team members know firsthand how isolating TTM can feel because many of us have been in your shoes.

Our guides are here to help you manage your symptoms and empower you to advocate for yourself in every area of your life—including your medical care.

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References

González, M. L., Rivera, M. I., Ortiz, J., Torres, R., & Rivera, R. (2021). Characteristics and treatment-seeking in an adult Hispanic population with trichotillomania. Journal of Clinical Psychology, 77(3), 444-455. https://doi.org/10.1002/jclp.23067

Grant, J. E., & Stein, D. J. (2020). Trichotillomania and related disorders: Advances in research and clinical management. Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, 81(5), 20m13498. https://doi.org/10.4088/JCP.20m13498

Krajewski, P. K., Zirpel, H., Saceda-Corralo, D., Thaci, D., & Szepietowski, J. C. (2024). Exploring pharmacological treatment for trichotillomania: Do we need better education? International Journal of Dermatology, 63(1), 57-63. https://doi.org/10.1111/ijd.17269

Mayo Clinic. (2023). Trichotillomania (hair-pulling disorder): Diagnosis and treatment. Mayo Clinic. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/trichotillomania/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20355193
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